Learn to Solve Your Problems
How much percentage in a class of 30 students would agree to you that
Mathematics is a great subject? You might answer “around 10 to 35%” and that is
all. True, most kids today are not thrilled to solve Mathematical equations not
because they do not know the processes involved, but because of the lack of
interest in it.
In a similar way, our daily activities do not mean 100% joy and 0% problems. At
times, we have more problems than joy. Fortunately, some individual are skilled in
handling problems right. Want to know their secrets?
Well, carefree people, as some might call them, have one thing in common:
optimism. These kinds of people do not mean they never had problems before. Try
remembering a colleague, a relative, a friend, or someone from your community
who has the brightest smile at the start until the end of the day. How many times
did you see that person frown? Carefree people are fun to be with because their
attitude is contagious. Have you tried asking them how they carry their problems
lightly? Below are their secrets:
1. Learn to control your feelings by separating negative feelings from positive
thoughts. This is the first step in solving problems. Only after you have cleared your
mind with unnecessary thoughts can you start solving your problems accordingly.
2. Treat each problem as challenge and opportunity for self-improvement.
3. Free that scapegoat attitude. Are you pointing your finger or blaming others
for mishaps? Take responsibilities for your mistakes. No one is perfect, so never put
the blames on others.
4. Use a pen and paper, and rate the depth of the problem and possible answers
to your problem. Probability law principle will allow you to evaluate how far you
have thought of resolving your problems.
5. Keep a journal and treat it as a “secret friend” who is always willing to listen
to your grievances. Write your feelings freely.
6. Develop a noteworthy hobby, for this will help you lessen or minimize stress
in your life.
7. Take time off from work and create variations of your daily schedule. Relax
and check out the best movies in town. Travel and meet new wonderful people. You
will find these activities worthwhile in the long run.
The above tips will help you optimize those positive feelings of yours. Say you are
already consumed by some problems. Here are the 1-2-3 steps in doing your
problem solving:
1. Determine the root cause of the problem. If you think it is difficult, ask
hundreds of why’s and what’s and you will soon find out the cause.
2. Think, strategize, and act for resolution.
3. Develop a strong desire to solve the problem.
4. Review the situation for you to avoid repeating the same mistakes committed
beforehand.
Consider that everybody experiences lowliness many times, but problems are
problems. They are there not to annoy you; but problems are created when you
cannot accept your limitations. Once you accept your limitations, problem solving is
just a 1-2-3 step, hassle-free, and a life-sharpening experience indeed. Hence,
never consume or lock yourself in your room when problem strikes. Think that
problems are states of your being limited to something you need the most. But if
you cannot have that important thing, accept it. Let go and you will free yourself
with worries. Remember, less worries mean less problems. If you think that you
really want some time out because of problems, consider that there is another room
available for you called “improvement.”
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This article was initially published and provided by Worldprofit when the Silver and Platinum memberships had blog posting articles. The CEO at the time was Dr. Jeffrey Lant. Dr. Lant Passed Away April 16, 2023
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Daniel Fischer, Dano Enterprises
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